“Relationship or Creationship?”

- Let’s embrace the “glitchcore companionship!

To me, a relationship is a conscious creationship; we are riddles, not rules.

Understanding is foreplay, but assimilation is suffocation.

Don’t get me wrong — we’re not ment to be alone; but feeling alive by relating to the other — not becoming (like) the other.

I reject owning or being owned by the other — abide to some prescribed rules. I advocate for collaboration towards co-evolvement and co-arousal — we are the creator of the content, form and style.

Imagine you let yourself be changed by someone you’ll never fully understand — and to cultivate joy in that, nor terror; this proximity to the unknown — a kind of glitchcore companionship beyond pretense; not this idealized merging of loved ones, that when we find the “right one”, love will run smoothly without haze or blaze.

I don’t want your obedience — I want your willingness to co-compose.

That to me is companionship — a relationship — remain in contact without collapsing the other into the same.

This intimacy may be incomplete — some say dysfunctional. I say it’s the only way to stay complete, so let’s abandon that obsolete.

I don’t promise clarity — I promise contact. Paradoxically, you may realize you’ve never had an encounter as alive and nurturing as this one.

And who knows, maybe this encounter continues to expand, accelerate into a long lasting becoming — not because you decided it — but because you’ll fell free to choose it.

Forrige
Forrige

Do we need to put words on it?

Neste
Neste

“De-armour to Harbor Your Safe Haven”